How Do I Make Space for My Art While Raising a Family?

It’s a question I ask myself more often than I admit.

Between working full-time, showing up as a mama, chasing emails on my lunch break, and trying to pour into my creative self… it can feel like there’s never enough time, never enough energy, never enough me to go around.

But still—music calls me. And I keep answering.

Some days, making space looks like whisper-singing melodies into my phone before bed. Other times, it’s taking marketing calls on my break, or following up with producers and band members in between picking up groceries and homework checks. It’s early mornings in the pool doing water aerobics just to clear my head, and late nights revisiting lyrics after everyone’s asleep.

It’s not always glamorous, and it's definitely not always easy—but it’s worth it. Because when I create, I feel like I'm right where I'm supposed to be. And I want my children to see that it’s possible to hold space for your dreams, even in the middle of life’s responsibilities.

Some weeks I have to be gentle with myself and just do what I can. Other weeks, I surprise myself with how much I pour out creatively—even with a full plate. It’s not about perfect balance. It’s about alignment. Listening to my body, my spirit, and my people—and trusting that the music will meet me in the middle.

And I’m grateful I don’t do this alone. My family supports me in ways that matter deeply. They show up not just with love, but with their own talents and wisdom—lending their voices, ideas, and energy to help bring my vision to life. Whether it's encouraging words, helping with logistics, or being part of the creative process, they are in it with me. And that makes the dream feel even more whole.

If you’re out there juggling family, work, and your art too—know that you’re not alone.

You’re not behind. You’re blooming, even in the cracks. Keep going. 💛